Younger women dating older married men
Let me give you my honest assessment about these May-December relationships.
The first is that the notion of romantic love often takes a backseat to the primary motivator for many girls entering into such a relationship: economic or financial security.You've undoubtedly heard stories about Eastern European, Asian, and South American girls in their 20's dating American, Canadian, and European men in their 40's, 50's, 60's and beyond.If you haven't experienced it yourself or personally known someone who has, you're probably asking yourself...first of all, is it really true; and secondly, how do relationships with such age disparities work out in the long run?I'm a 63 year-old American man, myself, and have lived and dated younger women in more than 10 countries, including the Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Mexico, Colombia, and Panama, to name a few.Younger girls often perceive older foreign men as stable, financially secure candidates who can not only provide security and educational opportunities for them, but often for their families as well.
They often trade their youth and beauty for an older man's financial wherewithal and wisdom. Did you really think it was just your looks, charm, and charisma that drew that beautiful, exciting, sexy 22 year-old girl to you? You need to always keep in mind that many of the girls who are drawn to considerably older men have been born into a family which cannot afford them the educational, financial, or social opportunities that so many western girls take for granted.
The second truth, tied to the first, is that many of these girls have grown up in cultures where taking care of the men in their families is almost a genetic predisposition. Like it or not (and personally I do), these women still play the nurturing, supportive role which has been devalued and disowned in so many more "modern" societies.
Now, this is not to say that you're dealing with a poor, weak, defenseless, mousy woman.
On the contrary, many of these girls, by nature of their upbringing, possess a strength and resilience that makes them excellent wives and mothers.
If you find a good girl with these traits, you will experience a level of devotion and caring that you have probably never known before.
Remember that many countries around the world have no welfare programs, medical care, free or low cost education, or social security system for the aged.