Submissive women dating sites
You are more likely to be asked on a second date in speed dating (stock picture) if you have genes consistent with the stereotypical traits desired in a romantic partner.For men, this includes the genes for dominance and leadership, and for women the genes which affect your social sensitivity and submissiveness It seems that your success at speed-dating might be determined by your genes rather than shared interests and charm (image from Channel 4's First Dates pictured).
I made an account for "perversions.com" because some bogus review site said it's good for BDSM people, then it turns out to actually be a website called eroticads.com, which I searched and had several bogus reviews, then I found actual user reviews that verified everything is bogus.ANYWAY, I can find normal women offline easy, but where do I find women into BDSM or fetish-related stuff?It seems inappropriate to post that on normal dating sites.The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.Try Collarspace.com, large dating site, and Fetlife.com, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
it is not specifically a dating site, but no one objects if you contact people that look interesting. Some advice : first of all, no *censored* picture for your profile picture. second, if you contact someone that looks like you someone might want to talk to don't be an ass about it. Mistymouse ( my nym on either site) I have had 0 luck with Collarspace and Fetlife.
be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. They make me hate myself more than anything, no one ever messages you.
Don't just go "hey i want this and that, and you are sub, so you have to give it to me. Your search results with collarspace are limited to say the least, and there are plenty of scammers there.
I am uninterested in going to Fetlife munch's because of some social anxiety, but that seems the only way to maybe meet someone. There are not huge numbers of people and it is a long process to find the right people.
Definitely join both fetlife and collarme but keep expectations in check. It does not have a search function that works for dating.
Collarme has relatively few women and a majority of those are pro dommes. However, you can join groups with a local focus and groups focused on kinks that interest you.