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None of these things would be diminished because of my size, yet none of them seem to matter because of my size.This problem only seems to be magnified by another byproduct of conservative Christian culture: the pressure to be married.
Markers of spiritual maturity, like depth of character or willingness to serve, should trump my above-average BMI, but rarely is that the case.I see it in the faces of guys I'm meeting for the first time after being matched on e Harmony, even though we've exchanged weeks of witty banter and embarrassing confessions.I hear it in the concerned tones of mentors and parents who repeat phrases such as, "You've got such a pretty face," and "I know you want to be married someday. " Every ounce of my being cringes, because they're probably right. I am talented and opinionated and passionate and valuable.I am good at writing and making jokes and cleaning. I would love to pass my days manoeuvring a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring.Dating as an overweight conservative Christian woman seems impossible.Whether we admit it or not, physical attraction plays a large role in paving the way for love.
We don't like to look closely at this fact, especially inside the walls of the church where we hope to find less superficial dating criteria than one's pant size, but the surplus of single, godly, intelligent plus-size women speaks to reality.
It feels like things should be different in the church.
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Dating as an overweight woman can be more difficult.